For the
second year in a row, in the month of August I returned home to America. As
anyone would know the US is a wide, expansive country heavily populated along
its coasts, and to see the varied regions is no simple thing. I have done what
I can to fulfill such an ambition, and this summer I took another step on the
path of the explorer. This time I went east to Boston. There begins this
travelogue.
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Leaving Japan |
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Arrived Stateside |
Nick
I have a
friend named Nick. We first met 14 years ago in Japanese class at San Diego
State University. I'd be lying if I said I remember the details of that day, or
what words we shared, but in the fertile ground of
our encounter a seed fell between us--one of friendship--and in the years since
it has flourished. So great joy filled my chest when I laid eyes upon my
friend at the baggage claim in Logan International Airport. We soon exited, and
after a quick breakfast, Nick took me to his house on
Boston's west side. He lives with Melinda, his beautiful wife whom he had met
eight years before in Turkey during an English teaching stint. The two are now trying to move from their rental house to a home of
their own. Unfortunately, every time they've attempted to finalize a deal someone
else outbids them.
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Downtown Boston |
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Tall building |
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Beacon Hill |
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Caught in the rain |
Nick and
his wife make a good couple. They are highly educated, well traveled, and both
are teachers. Or rather, she is a university professor, while he teaches at a
high school. Nick also squeezes in a few hours a week at a community college. Between his two jobs he still had time to show me the city and it was my first
visit to Boston so I was eager to take pictures of the sights. We cruised
the streets in Nick's new Honda SUV while listening to the latest album from
Daft Punk. Their music, I think, is best described as a heavily stylized brand
of sexy funk. It suited the mood. In the world outside the car the city had taken on a hyper modern guise with rain pouring from above giving the streets and buildings a slick sheen. OK. So it wasn't exactly like in the movie Tron Legacy, but our surroundings were nonetheless nice.
With
Boston explored it was time to head north. Nick had it in mind to visit a small
town in Maine called Belfast. We drove up the coast and arrived at peak tourist time. The town's largest claim to fame is its dry dock, making Belfast the northernmost port on the US Atlantic coast where boats can stop off
for extensive repair work. To pass the time, Nick and I saw "This Is the
End" at a local artsy theater. We then hit up a Mexican restaurant. The
oddly prepared food was atrocious and I needed several beers to rid the taste
from my mouth. But really, what was I expecting? Maine is as far as you can get from Mexico in the
continental US. Yet what they lack in that culinary area they make up for with their
seafood.
Lobster is the big local draw and Nick recommended that I eat a lobster
roll. They come in two varieties, those smothered in butter, and those covered
in mayo. I had neither. I don't like shellfish. And I don't care for McDonalds
either. But I ate at one on the coastal highway. Nick and I walked in, and for the
first time as far back as I can remember, I was at a McDonalds with not a single
brown or black staff person. I suppose the few number of minority people living in the area had something to do with it. Nick also pointed out that prejudice
was still prevalent throughout the state. Not that the white folk went around shouting racial slurs. The problem was more subvert and
factored more into how employers hire someone, or how readily a bank will give
out a loan to a non-White person.
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Nick's Lobster roll |
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All-American lighthouse |
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Diner |
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Belfast waterfront |
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Artisan woodwork |
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Wide intersection |
During
our stop in Belfast I discovered that the town was not too far from Acadia
National Park. I persuaded Nick to drive further north so we could see it. That
turned out to be a good decision. When we arrived the typically overcast skies
along the coast cleared allowing us to take in the amazing sights. The rugged coastline
had large rock formations that crumbled into the sea, and to their rear, vibrant,
green forest covered the inland hills. We paralleled the coast on the park's loop road
and cut up the hills in some areas to see the panoramic views. At one point I
led Nick up a hike on a rocky footpath. The man had gone soft living in the big
city and needed to stop often to catch his breath. The breaks gave me time to
eye the surrounding scenery. Aspen trees, ferns and thick moss filled in the
forests, and large granite rock jutted out from the open spots. With its
generous offering of natural beauty the park was nothing short of impressive
and a place I highly recommend to visit.
Nick too
was taken aback. He even felt a little guilty that we had driven up without his
wife. "She's mentioned it on more than one occasion that she wants to see
this place," he said. "So when she finds out I came here she's not
gonna be happy about it."
"I
don't get it I," I said. "So you
had a little fun on your own. It's no big deal."
"What
can I tell you Phil? Married life is pretty complicated. I mean, Melinda is
genuinely hurt her when I do things like this without her. And she's not the jealous type. It's just that marriage to her is about being together
and sharing experiences."
I could
see that Nick really did love his wife. "Well, you can put the blame on
me. I'm the one who insisted on coming this far north.
And besides, we don't get to see each other that often. She'll
understand."
"Yeah.
She will. And I'll make it up to her one day. I'll have to take another trip out, me and her."
"Right.
It's not so far. Only 6 hours."
Nick
laughed. But I was not trying to make a joke. 6 hours really did seem like a
short drive to me.
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After the hike |
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Sandy beach |
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Rocky shore |
After
Boston I spent a day in New York City. I walked around Manhattan and not taking
any course in particular I stumbled onto a volunteer group serving free food. I
had thought it was for the homeless, but most the people lining up seemed to be
everyday citizens. They took their meal and got a voucher for free clothes. As for the group of volunteers, they came from outside the city and were organized
through a church. Apparently several such groups operated throughout the city
and as a whole provided free meals every day of the week. Since I was there I
took advantage of their handouts. The food was all right. I also came away
with a dark navy blue t-shirt that says I ran in the 2012 NYC marathon. It's
the one souvenir I left the city with.
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Time Square |
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UNI-QLO storefront |
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The Naked Cowboy |
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Packed parking |
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Typical Manhattan street |
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Abandoned heels |
Unlike my
first visit to New York 10 years ago, I now had the opportunity to roam about
Central Park. The large green rectangle is a much needed haven in an
otherwise urban setting. Trees, large grass lawns, sports facilities and a wide
concourse provide an area for people to enjoy recreational activities of all
types. Cycling and jogging appeared to be the most popular. I also saw men
playing league softball, people walking their dogs, and a few families having a
picnic. And what would central park be without the street performers? I
stumbled across a group of young men from the Bronx who did flips and break
dancing. To be honest I did not think their skills were anything too
spectacular. Yet they were able to draw in a big crowd of tourists and worked
them over with an almost comic-like routine. The group leader cracked jokes
saying things like "Better we out here working for yo' money. Y'know, 'cus
we not at yo' house robbing it." He clearly had no shame in asking the
onlookers for tips and several people responded by handing out bills. I'd say
the group pulled in over 500 dollars for 30 minutes work. I might have tipped
them as well, but I was too busy taking photos to reach for my wallet.
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Softball fun |
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Performing |
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The big jump |
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Lotus flower |
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Rowing away |
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Cyclists and joggers |
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Stretching |
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Main fountain |
Family
An aunt
on my dad's side of the family lives in Mt. Laurel, NJ. I arrived there next and in a torrential rainstorm. The water came down so hard that
when my uncle Bob picked me up at the bus station the visibility out his windshield was
no more than 20 feet. On the news they later said it was the most rain the area had
ever had in a day. But you wouldn't have thought so the following morning. It was a
bright sunny day, and in nearby Philadelphia the streets showed no sign of
flooding. To see the city's main sites Aunt Marla and uncle Bob took me to the historic center. We stopped at Independence Hall, the Liberty Bell and the cemetery where Benjamin
Franklin was laid to rest. In the same area was an indoor market. We dropped in for lunch and I had a big, greasy Philly cheese steak sandwich. The thing was
so damned good I could have probably eaten two in one sitting. But it was one
of the few times I showed restraint. That said, I consumed copious amounts of
fattening food during my vacation and returned to Japan eight pounds heavier.
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Indoor market |
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Colonial cemetery |
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Independence hall |
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Liberty Bell |
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Administration building |
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Exhibit center |
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Tourists |
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Our guide |
Because I
set aside a few days to stay at their house, my aunt and uncle had time to also
show me the New Jersey side of the Delaware River. We next went to the historic
park where on Christmas night in 1776, General Washington crossed over from Pennsylvania to route a
contingent of British forces.
Only some 4,000 men took part in the
fighting, but the victory, as small as it was, proved to be a turning point in
the war. To my surprise I also learned that when Washington attacked the
British, the enemy was not drunk from celebrating the holiday. That is a common
misconception in American history. The forces, mostly made up of German
mercenaries, were instead taken by surprise because they were not expecting an
attack due to the snowy, inclement weather.
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Colonial era arms |
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Nice day for a picnic |
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Washington crosses the Delaware |
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Street sign |
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Historic site |
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Playing Scrabble with Bob and Marla |
During the visit, my aunt and uncle had some things that needed to be addressed. For example, Bob had had a car accident, and though
he was not the one at fault, the insurer was giving him hassle over getting the
damage repaired. The thing was that the insurer wanted to repair parts that would've been cheaper to replace. This caused a
delay at the shop. In the meantime the insurer continued to pay for the rental
car that Bob was using. It didn't make sense to him. And what made that the
situation more frustrating was that the insurer would only provide the rental
car for a maximum number of days, meaning Bob and Marla would be further inconvenienced
by something that should have been settled immediately. The insurer was
Progressive by the way. In a calm, composed manner Bob told the agent over the
phone, "I understand your position here, but I must say, when talking to
friends and family in the future I will tell them about this and have to
recommend that they don't use your services." Overhearing the conversation, I nodded.
You tell him Uncle Bob, I thought.
Another
interesting matter that came up was in regards to the church that Marla
attended. The church received donations and had fundraisers to get money for the
purpose of helping those in need. As Marla described it, "we want to give
people the chance to get back on their feet." One example she gave was
about a man who had lost his job due to a health problem. As a result he also
lost his health insurance and then medical costs soon ate up his savings leaving
him with no money to pay the mortgage. So this poor guy who had once had a good
paying job, money in the bank, and excellent health coverage went from a secure
position to one of destitution in the span of a few months. Marla's church
stepped in to help. They covered the mortgage payments until he recovered
and could find another job. Every few months a similar case would come up, and when I
arrived, Marla was investigating a woman who was unemployed and about to be
evicted from her apartment. Marla
contacted the woman's landlord and social worker to get information for the
church committee before they could decide what to do. In the end, Marla felt
the church could not help the woman because she had disability issues. Even if
her rent were covered she would be unlikely to hold down a job. That meant she
would never be able to manage on her own. Because the woman had two children and
no one else to turn to it was a difficult decision to make, but the church had a limited budget to work with. They simply could not provide enough assistance to
resolve the woman's situation indefinitely. It would be better, Marla believed,
to save that money for a different case in the future.
Bob and Marla are good people. They raised two good
sons as well, one of whom still lives in the area. He is my cousin Mark. A lawyer by trade, he has a lovely wife and three adorable daughters. The group of us
spent a day in Ocean City. Located on a barrier island off the New Jersey
coast, the city straddles a long stretch of beach that has become a popular
summer destination. I was quite surprised at how nice it was. The beach was
comparable to those in southern California and the water had sizable breaks
making it possible to surf and body board. I went in with Mark's kids and
helped the oldest two catch waves on their body boards. At first they were
trying to ride out the whitewash. Then I showed them that for maximum thrust
they should position themselves to kick down a wave right as it is about to
crest. They seemed to understand, but after I let them practice on their own
they went back to riding whitewash.
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Bob and Mark's family |
Ohio
In what
now seems like a former life I had once lived in the city of Cincinnati. I moved in with my friend Rodney and we worked across the Ohio River in Kentucky at
Citibank. For extra income we also took up part time hours at an Applebee's
restaurant. My goal was to save up money, and after I succeeded at that task I
took my savings and moved to South America for a year. That was all ten years
ago. So for me, it was an odd feeling returning to a part of my past and seeing
old faces I had not been sure I would ever see again. Surprisingly, the people
had not changed much. When I arrived Rodney's mother Sanae was still working as
hard as before. She makes a living buying and renovating properties to rent
out. And in the time I was away she had moved to a large seven-bedroom house
with her husband Matt. Rodney's real father was a cheat and a deadbeat, and Sanae essentially raised four kids on her own. This is made more impressive by
the fact that she was a Japanese immigrant. Then she met Matt, an all around
nice guy who works as a rheumatologist. Their marriage brought together two
sets of grown stepchildren. Among these children Rodney's younger brother Jason
has spent time in and out of jail yet somehow managed to father seven kids by four different women. The three oldest, Sanae helped to raise, two of whom she
adopted. They are twins named Chris and Nick.
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Tools for a fixer-upper |
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Matt and Sanae's home |
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Family dog |
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Dinner time |
Cincinnati
is a city that is split between black and white. The two groups do not mingle
much, and it is an odd thing for me to see, my having come from southern
California. During my stay I had wanted to go to the downtown area but instead spent most my time in the suburbs. And on one of the days I went to Columbus because that's where Nick and Chris had soccer practice. Rodney's stepbrother Brian
drove us. It was about 90 minutes away, and we had a chance to walk around the
city center while the boys practiced. The streets were clean and the buildings
new, and along the Scioto River, bands played music in a park where the
authorities allowed alcohol. I sat and enjoyed a few bottles of beer. I could
have stayed there all evening taking in the sounds and sights, but we had to
pick up the kids. Afterwards, for dinner, we went to Skyline, a famous chain
restaurant in the Ohio-Kentucky-Indiana tri-state area. Skyline specializes in
chili covered hotdogs and spaghetti. Loads of cheese is added on top of
everything for added taste and our meal was as delicious as it was unhealthy.
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University of Cincinnati |
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Downtown |
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In Columbus |
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Concert in the park |
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Backpacking with pets |
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Singer |
The Twins
Chris and
Nick had only been two years old when I last visited Cincinnati. They were too
young then to remember me, though they knew who I was. "That guy Phil" was their uncle
Rodney's friend who liked to travel. And to my surprise the twins had already
done a fare share of traveling themselves. Sanae had taken them to Japan
five times, and also around the States including to California. And there was talk
of sending them to Italy for soccer camp. Their grandmother had already made up her mind.
The boys were not cut out for schooling so they should instead cultivate their
athletic talents. "Besides," she said, "a university degree
doesn't count for much nowadays, and tuition costs go up every year. Why should I spend all that money? It
might be for nothing."
Nick and
Chris had the year before performed so dismally at school that they were both
held back in the 6th grade. It was not because they lacked intelligence. The
kids were quite sharp, musically inclined, and surprisingly knowledgeable for
their age. But in the classroom environment they did not focus on their
studies. That caused them to fail their tests. Sanae thought the best thing to
do at that point was have them home schooled. I sat down with her and we
formulated a plan. To pass the standardized scholastic tests for a grade equivalent
credential in the state of Ohio, the boys would have to learn the core subjects
of math, science, and literature. Moreover, Sanae felt they should learn
Spanish. That equated to four hours of study a day. A variety of websites
provided the needed curriculum, but someone would still have to supervise the
kids to make sure they were doing the work. Sanae was too busy to take on the
task herself. So she wanted to hire a Spanish/English bilingual who would stay
at the house in one of the guest rooms and teach mornings. The problem was she
needed to find that person within a month before the next school year began.
"Too
bad you're going back to Japan," she said to me. "You would've been
perfect for the job."
I nodded
my head. "Yeah, it is a shame. But I got my Japanese life to return
to." In a way I wanted to help Nick and Chris. However, a year was a big
commitment. I also didn't like the idea of spending the winter in Ohio. I had
already suffered through one during my first visit to the area. It amounted to
miserable, cold mornings, streets covered in salty slush, and brown/black snow
along the sidewalks.
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At Skyline with Rodney, Brian and the boys |
National Parks
For my
final day in Cincinnati we took a trip south to Mammoth Caves National
Park in Kentucky. The park is a UNESCO World Heritage Site and home to the
largest known cave network. Over 400 miles of natural limestone tunnels have
been found with new discoveries made every year. Because the caves are so
extensive there are a dozen plus tours that go to the many different sections.
We decide to join the New Cave Tour. At the gathering point I was delighted to
see that our park ranger guide was a young pretty thing with clear blue eyes
and a warm smile, and the way she talked with her southern Kentucky accent lent her an added air of charm. I couldn't help but take loads of pics. We then hopped on a
bus to the cave entrance, and once inside, went on a mile long trek through the
cool darkness. I tried to get more photos but the poor lighting made it
difficult. Meanwhile, the guide gave a thorough account of the cave's history
and geological features. For someone who had likely said the same things
countless times, she maintained a high degree of enthusiasm in her delivery.
Thinking about it now, I should have taken a moment to thank her afterwards for
the nice tour. Oh well. I'll have to live it down somehow.
America
has the oldest and largest national park system in the world. As of 2013 the
National Park Service has designated 59 parks. The oldest is Yellowstone,
though there is some debate as to whether it should be Yosemite. The is becasue Yosemite was the first place to be set aside and protected by federal law.
But only after the National Park Service was founded with Yellowstone did
Yosemite also become a national park. From there the National Park Service
quickly grew to include other areas of natural beauty and the push bolstered a
new sense of national pride. Europe may have had its history, castles and
cathedrals, but its mountains could not compare with the great Rockies, nor could
its ravines match the majesty of the Grand Canyon.
Of the 59
national parks now in existence I have been to 18. I have also visited 30 or so
national monuments--an even smaller portion of the hundreds of sites run by
the National Park Service. In their totality these places constitute a diverse
and incredible collection of natural wonders that no other country can boast. From the lava floes of Volcanoes National Park to the 20,000ft
peak of Denali National Park, and the bleach white dunes of White Sands National
Park to the world's largest trees in Sequoia National Park, there is
much to behold. I should also point out that many amazing places are privately
maintained, which is the case of Monument Valley and Meteor Crater.
Perhaps one day I would like to see half the National Parks in America. As I
continue to explore more of the country during my travels I will be sure to go
out of my way to visit as many as possible.
Chicago
I'm no longer the young buck I used to be. At the
ripe ole age of 34 I've been around. But deep down inside I know
I can't truly consider myself a seasoned traveler until I have visited certain destinations of great renown. One such place is Chicago. While I was a child growing
up in San Diego, Chicago was for me a city of prohibition era gangsters,
football played on the icy turf at Soldier Field, and blocky skyscrapers that lined the
Miracle Mile. I just had to see it. So from Ohio, Rodney and I made for Chicago
on a bus and pulled into downtown at around noon. A bit to the north in
Lincoln Park was our hostel. We had booked a double room for 120 bucks a night.
Accommodations in the big city don't come cheap, not even at a hostel, but at
least we were in a good location. A few blocks east was the Lake
Michigan waterfront and along it the Lakefront Trail. The Lakefront Trail runs
for 18 miles and passes by several sandy beaches. Since it was
summer we saw people swimming in the water, sunbathing on towels, and playing
volleyball. Who would have thunk it? Nice beach in Chicago? I certainly did not
expect that. So standing in person on the golden sand against a backdrop
of tall skyscrapers came as a big surprise.
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Hostel room |
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Lakefront Trail |
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Roller hockey |
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Residential street |
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Lining up |
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Jazz musicians |
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Alcohol selection |
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Nightfall |
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High-rise bar |
Rodney
Like before with Nick, Rodney was a friend I was happy to see. He had once lived in San Diego where we met while I was still a university student. The two of us worked at a Japanese supermarket called Mitsuwa. Rodney had later returned to Ohio and now lived with his family again. He was currently working at a Home Foods store and helped look after Nick and Chris. But he did not want to stay in Cincinnati for much longer. In other words, his plan was to move back to California and switch over to a Home Foods store in Los Angeles. By the time I met him in Cincinnati he had already put in a transfer request. If it went through he hoped to stay in Los Angeles and work his way up to a store manager position where he would be making a six figure salary.
As Rodney and I went around Chicago, we talked at length about the things that had happened in the years since we last saw each other. A thing about Rodney, he was never the type to hold back his opinion. If you tell him something he'll give you the most brutally honest response. That is fine most the time but there are occasions I wish he would keep his thoughts to himself. Understandably, we did a fair share of bickering while we were together but the guy is still my good friend and he means well. And I'm not exactly the most easy person to get along with either. Anyhow, when the time came I bid my friend goodbye. He left one way to take a bus home, and I the other to kill a bit more time in the city before my flight. It was sad seeing him walk away, and I wondered if it will be another 7 years until we meet again.
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Cubs stuff |
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Outside Wrigley Field |
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Beneath the tracks |
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AT&T Cloud Gate |
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Lincoln Park Zoo |
In Conclusion
I think after this trip I have seen more of the United States than most people. And with every other new place I discover I miss my country and look forward to the day I can return. But for now I am content to teach English in Japan. My job for one provides me with ample time to travel. There are so many more places I want to see, and I'll be honest, it was not even my intention to go to America this summer. I had originally wanted to revisit Europe. However, my best friend Dan decided to get married in San Diego and I knew then I must go Stateside instead. Why not make the most of it I figured. So I hit up the east coast as well. As for the wedding, it happened in the second part of my trip and I will get to that in the next blog post.
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Back in America |
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